Advice: She Got Pregnant, Did An Abortion And Got Dumped

By 07:44 Thu, 23 Jan 2014 Comments

Is this the year that I will officially be awarded counsellor of

the year?

The way things are going and with the increased problems in

relationships that I have settled this January (12 successfully

relationships) alone is a giving a big scare and I fear an award

is inevitable for me.

One of these cases is that of Esther and Henry (not real

name). They met, started as friends, weeks later Henry talked

to her about how he felt for her which she turned down.

After much persuasion (3 months) Esther agreed to date him.

As usual sex was involved. Esther got pregnant, she was so

engrossed with Henry that she wanted to keep the

pregnancy. Henry, a final year student told her he wasnt

ready that they should abort it. This she later agreed and

removed the pregnancy.

4 weeks after the abortion Henry’s love for her diminished

and ran cold. He got another girlfriend and plainly told her it

was over. She was pained deep within her soul, she wasnt

ready to give up her position for another lady. She still visits

Henry hoping He would change but things got worse with

each passing day. Even seeing the other lady with him still

doesnt deter her to get the message.

I really dont understand. Is Esther foolish? Is she having a

fragile heart to let go of situation beyond her control? Do you

think her her persistence may eventually pay off? Do you

think she deserve a better man?

My dear people, what advice can you proffer for this lady?



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